Is lie bitter or sweet

What I will be talking about now is not my genre most preciously and who am I to tell you what is wrong or right but I think what is wrong in listening. You can trust me on this that what I will be writing is worth your time.
Truly lying is not a word but it is habit that all of us possess. We are lying from the age of 2 and it has lead to uncontrollable lying. But why we lie, I think it might be due to show how good you are in front of your friends or hide truth or protect your  loved one or just to not hurt someone or just to protect yourself. But I can tell that hiding the truth will not do any good because you will get more into that loophole of lying. If it continues, it will reach at such a pinnacle that their is no returning back from it and I can assure you that time will come when even if you want to tell truth lie will come out. Even more, a time will reach when you will see your life as a lie and as dream in which you are drowning. If you see what I am telling and understand my feeling then stop lying so much because if you not you will find your of no use and you will see yourself in dream of lie that you created for yourself. You can trust me on that stop lying too much or their is no returning back. With this I take my leave .

Gracias
Himanshu khichar

Here comes the time

So here is the time to tell you the place which I wrote about and told you to imagine but first let’s give answer in type of hints. First I wrote that this place is a hill station and have a tea plantation as well as chocolate factory too. Second I told you that it has colourful houses and water fall in wild life reserve too. It is a place where people love playing football and are helpful. So here I remove the curtain to welcome the hill station called Ooty in high grounds of Tamil Nadu situated near Coimbatore. It is the place where every food is spicy and situated on high lands. It also has secret ways in between. As with this blog I take my leave from the topic location.

THE PLACE WHERE TEA IS AT ITS PEAK

So hi guys, I am back with more hints to help you in imagining more about that place and even to make you recognize that place. 

When we were going to highest peak of that valley, I was not much excited about it as I was more excited about the secret passages which I saw along the path. Those secret paths (less travelled) increased my curiosity to extreme level; I just wanted to know where those ways ended at last. I was so much curious about the ways that I just wanted to become an adventurer for some time. I just filled refreshed seeing those ways full with flowers and those paths made me mesmerized that I forget that I was travelling with my friends. When I reached at our villa, the thing in front of villa took me by surprise as our villa was situated in high terrain and the city below us looked marvelous with short paths and colourful houses. In far distant I could a marriage was also going with all different tradition. It was the time that I found some highland people so good at playing football as I just saw with own eyes people playing football at two different places and they were really good at this. At this height, the people were playing football on plain terrain and with marvelous tactics; even I saw a football club playing on this marvelous valley. Truly this trip was marvelous as people were also very helpful and always ready to help. With this I take my leave and leave you to imagine a lot as imagination is most powerful tool for being more creative. Hope you comment what you imagined after reading this and also try to use you mind to find which place is this.

How to Introduce yourself

When people tell me to introduce myself, I don't start with directly telling my name but rather tell them story of my life and in between add my name to it. It helps us when we introduce like it because it make listener listen to us as the talk turn interesting. Everyone start with introducing themselves by Hi I am but this way is different. But I don't think name has any place in world as people are known for their work. Name is just the word used to call us but really we are known for our work. Name is just calling word because we humans were social animals so we all just gave our self a name to call. Thus it started by parents deciding our name and people calling us by that. Introducing our self is the first impression on other person or group so make it worth it as the first impression is last impression. Thus introduce yourself by telling a story about what you really are and then tell your name. At last tell your strength, hobbies, weaknesses and dreams. So with help of this article you can introduce yourself but remember you are known by your work not your name so never have ego about your family name. As what you came with you go with it i.e. empty handed.

THE PLACE OF TERRAINS AND COLOURFUL HOUSES

So you might be thinking that which is the place that matches the above context is but what will be the fun then if i tell you that directly? So let’s start this puzzle game that we will be playing today. I will be giving the accurate description of beauty of that place and you can imagine that thing on your mind and at last tell me how you feel about it and name also. With this fact I will tell you the name of the place in my next blog (maybe). 

This will add to the excitement and curiosity with more fun to play. So let’s begin the game with first person experience, as I entered the valley I could see yellow, red, blue and other colour houses down the hill lined perfectly on one side of road but other side was like just opposite of other side whereas one side was full of colourful houses; other side was farming side with crops (tea) cultivated on step farms. That sight was my first impression of that place with beautiful yellow houses and step farming filled with flowers. The smell of tea was like making the environment even more beautiful. Then suddenly I heard a beautiful song or you may say quawli sung by someone who was far distant from me but that song was really heart touching even when I didn’t understand a word. The whole environment filled with houses on hills with smell of tea on step with quawli filled my whole body full of energy. This time I will write this much hint only but next time the valley will be expressed even more with details. So with this I take my leave and leave you to find this place in your powerhouse.

Stay tuned

Himanshu Khichar

Belittle love

Looks like I am back from where I left. At last I was not left with anything to post so I decided to post on a child. God knows why I always talk about certain topics but they are mostly important for our life. This topic actually crossed my mind while i was way back home, enjoying my holidays playing with my niece at home. I was like really attached to her within one month. In that time, i was always away with my friends or roaming around here and there. But the moment spent with her was the best moments of my life. She was just one year old and was really cute. When i played with her i used to forget all the problems in my life. I felt refreshed and energetic once again. Whenever she cried i was like about to cry myself, i even tried to find myself(the guy that i was back) but it was left behind when i was with her; it was like i was completely different person.

 At that moment i began to notice that i am not the only with that love for this cute child but everyone else from her parents to relatives to even my neighbours they really loved her and that point i found that it was energy and smile of that little child that made such positive impact on all of us. The child and the mother are the two things that god made so beautiful and peace giving that the person around them could forget every worry and problems of their life. It is the nature of the child that bring smile to any man or women who are even in some problem. For the child, he has his own world and we all should also see their world with our naked eyes. When we see our child grow it make us remember our childhood (mostly all memories are positive) and we feel good at that moment. I really felt so good to be around her and i still miss her (as i went back to the college) so i want to tell all of you that we should all live our life like that little child a carefree, enjoying and refreshing with positive surrounding so all other around us feel blessed to be with us. All of us should take some some time to see around us and try to see it with a small child's eye and you surely will feel blessed to be in such a beautiful world. Keep smiling and never belittle. With this stay tuned.

Thank you

OUR FUTURE-Part 2

Hi guys, I am back to continue my story of “our future”. So in previous story I ended with a story that happens all across the world which all the students face today. I am not telling you to work against your father’s wish but rather if your future path is parallel to your parent’s path then let it go that way, just to make them happy and then follow your path where their path ends. But following your dreams is not that easy because there are so many hurdles of life that we have to pass to reach our destiny but these hurdles are not problems rather they gave us a little bit of experience which will help us facing the life. 

Only if your passion to follow your dream is high then only you can reach your destiny. But beware while following your dream; don’t get too much into it that you forget little happiness that passes our life. We should all follow our destiny which we are born for, if you don’t know what your destiny is then get to know yourself first and then only you can find the passion that is hidden beneath you. Just following your dream without proper direction and discipline will not help you reach your destiny. It is just like sleeping and dreaming that I will do this or that next day rather than knowing that next day never comes. Most of us after achieving our dream forget where our roots were and don’t do anything for betterment of our society. We all should help each other and as in return we will also get something. As more teach others more you get to know yourself. At last I just want to say that no one is more smart or lucky but we all are same, it is just our attitude that make us see others like that. We all achieve our destiny not by smartness or luck but rather by our determination and hard work. With this I take my leave. Stay tuned.

Gracias                                                                                                                       

Himanshu Khichar

OUR FUTURE- Part 1

After writing about the “education system” I thought a lot and then decided to write about “our future”. I don’t know what your future will be as I am not a future teller or something like that but if I could then I would have worked on my future first. So I am not going to tell what future means but rather share my views on future that can help you in finding yours. 

Without some aim in our life, our life is like a ship without compass in open sea just randomly moving in any direction and finally crashing down. Many great personalities have told that “true happiness comes by achieving our goals and all other happiness is temporary”. Other great quote is “if you work for your passion then you don’t have to work a single day”. If you do this your whole life will be full of joy. But I will say that don’t leave your life without completing your dream because if you did that than even while dying you will have regret over it. But most of our future is dependent on our own thoughts. This fear of failure and what others will say has killed many futures than anything else. But most of us have pre-decided future, decided by our parents even before we are born. We even don’t want to change that future decided by our parents, we rather choose to remain silent and walk the path decided by our parents rather than fighting for future made by us. I feel angry and frustrated when someone tells me to follow some path that they have seen for me. Let’s tell you an example, One day I went to the marriage where i meet a lot of my relatives and every one of them were telling my father to make me an I.A.S or something like that. No one was asking me what I chose for my future rather everyone was giving their opinion on what should I become. I quietly heard them and remembered great sayings that “hear from all but do that your heart tells”. At that point I decided to prove all of them wrong by following my risky future which I have chosen for myself. So guys in the next blog I am going to tell more about how to decide your future and remain happy with it. Next blog will be coming tomorrow so stay tuned.

Thank you

Himanshu Khichar