Education System Of India

Hi guys, I am back with most talked topic of India which every Indian might have talked or experienced about in his lifetime. We all have had been to school and many might be going right now also. So in this article I will narrate some incidents that happen with most of us and also many arguments which I want to share with all of my readers.

So what really is this education system? Many know this answer but according to me it is that system that makes half of our life busy. So I am not saying that it is bad but it is what makes education system of our country tough and best by other countries. Our system teaches us to be competitive and rote learner which is beneficiary in many natures but is it so good that it is even taught in college. Our education system makes us a rote learner and teaches us to be hard working and increases our concentration too. It also increases competence which we can see by theory that three of the toughest exams (CAT, JEE and IAS) of the world are from India. But is this level of competition good for children? Answer is No, I disagree because I myself have experienced my friends sharing their work with me but telling not to share with acquaintances. Is it healthy competition, I don’t think so as we have seen so many suicides due to this system only. Tremendous pressure from parents and high competition make a student to end his life so easily, is the value of life so small that we can’t even face small difficulties like this.

I am accepting that this system make us one of most hard working students  but it is the same system that make us a person who has lost his creativity to this system and is now a perfect robot for companies to obey their command. I am not saying rote learning is bad but there should also be some of innovative skill in it to make students human again rather than a mugger and a over competitive person. It should bring some creative thinking and ideas to students on not to feel overburdened. With this I end my article with final words that people should not be a mugger and robot controlled by remote but rather be a person ready to face all difficulties and with practical knowledge. So stay tuned and now I take my leave.

Episode 2- Love a miracle

Hey readers  I am back with my new article “Love a miracle”, Yes you heard it right I am back to my article format that's why i am uploading it as soon as possible (back to back). Actually writing about love is not my cup of tea. That’s why it took me so long to write on love.

 I also have a heart but it doesn’t mean that I fall for someone. You can say I love my families and friends more than anyone else and I can cry it loud in front of anyone (Maybe). So why always people compare love to only someone, doesn’t they love any other person or they are just trying to prove to themselves that they love that somebody. Even when they love that somebody so much then why they watch and think about others too. I have watched my so many colleagues crying one day for their boyfriend or girlfriend and other day stalking on other girls and some even flirting with others, if they love her/him so much then why they give up. I have seen what true love is, it is not telling at each moment that I like or love you but connection between the hearts. They can’t even think about other things except each other. But this was not my topic, my topic is that these days does love only exist in partners; can’t it exist between friends or families or motherland. So I am writing this article telling that love also exists in other things too. I have seen (not seen but heard) so many soldiers die in battle field just for their motherland; wasn’t that love. Yes that was love only; love for their motherland and for their soil. I have even seen parents caring for their children like anything. When their children cried they also cried, just because they loved their child more than anything. I also love my family more than anything and I can do anything for them. But same is for my friends, it is hard to say but I love my friends more than anything because they are the one that made my life enjoyable.  So truly, love is a miracle that can develop between anyone like me and my dream and between anybody. So at last guys, just don’t think that only one person loves you and if you think that if he/she leaves you; there is no one to love you but I might say there are others that love you more than him/her and you just have to find them. So just don’t depend your life on one but spread your love on all direction. Find your life in your manner and never stop walking on the path of life.

 So meet you guys in my next article which will be on “Education System of India”.

Episode 1 - True love

Sorry for the delay but I am back. I might say that this love type of thing is far from me so I am telling an old story to you. This is a story of girl which can be said as someone’s first crush. I can assure you that it happens with most of us.

I was sure that she was beautiful, talented, playful and full of humour. I might even say that she was perfect for me but gosh something happened and I don’t know why. It was nearly 7 years ago when for the first time I saw her and instantly I fell for her. This was at the age of 11, I might say that she was my first crush but fate was not with me as she was not in my class and even more that she was having French and I was having German so our classes could never have been the same. I just saw her for 5 or 6 times in at least 6 years. I know that was like “long time no see” type but I might say except her I was never interested in any other girl and we never crossed path so she was my only crush for those years. Even not knowing what her name is, I was like attached to her. At last god answered my call and she was shifted to my class in 11^th. I was like in seventh heaven, full of joy and smiling from inside. Now was my time to act, As the girl I always wanted to make my first love was just sitting in front of me but oh I forget that she was already my first love from 6^th class, from the first time I saw her so I might say that I wanted to make her my first girl-friend (maybe if she became it will be like miracle for me as she was nearly perfect for me). But all my dreams were shattered all at once when she came to talk to me about something and I ignored her like an asshole. I totally ruined that moment by not replying to her as it was like dream come true and my lips were stick together. It was like that I was too afraid to reply, I keep thinking what to say to her so to make it perfect as an opening line to start the conversation. So even at this point I like her but she is too far away from me and thus I might say that it was all due to the fact that to make something perfect we even ruin our simple something. So when you get a chance to talk or act, just do it without overthinking about it. Let it go and rain on our aim without a second thought. with this bye guy meet you with my next article "love - a miracle".

LOVE

For few next posts I will write about love. First season will test love and friendship. The second story will tell about the story of true love. Both stories will tell about the difficulties that arise when one falls in love and its effects later. It will satisfy all our curiosity about what is love? Why true love is too difficult to find? Why even after knowing that love hurts a lot we want to fall in love? Why we always want to make a girlfriend or boyfriend? Why we most of the times break the trust of our partner? Why we get so angry with our partner and still want to remain with them? So I will end this post with this and from now on will make small post so readers don’t find it too difficult to read it.

Love is what make person think about the other all the time in positive manner.

Thank you friends for your time stay tuned and stay connected as next blog will come soon. Stay tuned now and forever as you will feel full of energy and you might get some experience about life’s way of living.

Signing off

Himanshu khichar

DARKNESS

Hi all my friends and visitors, this time I am back with my new story “DARKNESS”. This is story of most of the people who have some dark secrets hidden deep down there heart. So lets stop the curiosity and start my story.

Turn off the lights, close the curtains, shut the doors, seal all the holes. No rays of light is supposed to enter this room “The room of Darkness”. This room is all about the things which we considered as dark. Darkness can be fear, pleasure, sleep, encouragement and secrets. Everybody out there have there own story of darkness which is buried somewhere in them and comes out in darkness so that no one can see it but some can feel it.

Darkness is actually polar opposite to brightness and absence of light and some what deals with protons which we can read on google but here I want to talk about darkness hits our mind? Why generally it  is related with fear, sad, depression and isolation state of mind? Why darkness is considered as worst side? Why nobody want to be part of it? These questions constantly pop my mind maybe yours too that why people can’t see and feel the beauty of darkness, why they run  from it? That person maybe you too.

Sitting in the room, no lights on, looking here and there and trying to see the things just as small beam of light is needed to figure out things. Its feel like someone is needed to figure out the things. It feels like someone is standing behind me, staring at me but I know it’s all in my mind that this is work of horror movies and audios. But still there is a fear of dying, fear of ghosts and even fear of friends trying to scare you all thanks to those horror movies. I ran outside that room of darkness, then I realises its not fear of darkness which scares us it’s  whats inside it, which kills us which is just an imagination of our mind affected by our surrounding, believes and our senses. Darkness is just not an absence of light it’s a biggest lose we face in our life that lost who’s impact is everlasting and who’s scar can’t be faded away with time too. It kill one so deeply even there soul screams for help but that screams can’t be heard and  that tears can’t be seen. It questions ur existence of our abilities our believes in that way that even it make us feel unworthy,helpless and weak.  

DARKNESS IS NOTHING JUST FEAR PRODUCED BY OUR MIND,

    BE CONFIDENT AND WE ALL WILL SEE RAY OF LIGHT IN DARK ROOM TOO.

Thank you  friend for your time, hope you enjoyed this story and if you want me to write on something new feel free to comment. Stay tuned now and forever.

Signing off

Himanshu khichar 

MUSICIAN: Discovering the dream

Hello friends, as promised I am back.  So where were we?? … Ah! Yes, the story of “Music- discovering the dream”. Previously in “music-pursuing the dream”, that girl felt motivated and decided to start her own  YouTube channel, so I am going to continue from there.

She was standing on the terrace and had decided to jump from there as her life was full of misery and failures. Her eyes were watching the clouds passing by, full of tears as her last 5 videos were flops and she kept wondering that what has her life become. She kept thinking that her life was full of misery as she was rejected by her parents then rejected by her viewers and now even the god left her side. But suddenly she heard the sound of music humming in her mind and she remembered that her music is still with her as her partner and soul mate so she turned and ran toward her guitar which was placed on the ground and started playing it. She started singing the song which was like flowing through her veins full of passion. She thought that she is not like others as she has tried rather than sitting and cursing one’s life. So At last she gave up the idea of suicide and continues singing the song while playing her guitar. As the video ended, I was mesmerized and surprised by the uniqueness of her video and her views were really increasing this time. After watching the video, I called her and told that her video was really awesome and asked her that how could she be so motivated and spirited as well as whose guitar was it. She happily replied that her parents have understood her passion of music and they are the ones who brought her guitar. She further added that they even spend some money on a video camera and helped her shoot her video too. She was really happy about it and all of us were feeling good about her. But as the days passed on, we saw none of her videos coming to YouTube so all of us decided to go to her house. After meeting her, we all asked her why she was not uploading her videos. She seemed confused and replied that she didn’t know which song to sing and if she sung a terrible song her audience will decrease effectively. All of us thought that she might be correct, but primarily we were surprised that she has grown up so much that she was really talking like a mature girl. She was really learning as previously in her first video she uploaded her video by capturing through mobile with a low quality camera  as well her clothes were shabby and dull with very little confidence, but she improved quickly in her next video with wearing good clothes and little more confidence. In the fifth video she was like a real singer with full confidence and her previous video was really awesome. Suddenly our thoughts were interrupted by one of the friends. He was like really annoyed by this and he in an astonished tone told her that why she is always negative and she should upload her video as if she fears of her reputation which was yet not made then she will be doomed from success. He further added that we should always take risk that is one thing that brings us success. After hearing from him such a talk I was like really feeling happy that all of our friends were growing mature. So we all decided to help her, but further adding that she will upload her next song as soon as possible. She started crying and told all of us that we are really her true friends as we are always near her. After 3 days she messaged me that she has uploaded her video, singing radioactive song. We all watched her video and it was even better than  previous one. From that time she never looked back and we all were more motivated to achieve our dream too. I was standing on the rooftop when she called me and told that she has got her first paycheck from YouTube. I was really happy for her and looked at the sky and told myself that I will also achieve my dream whatever happens or whatever it takes.

So thank you my dear reader for your attention and my friend milind for his help in editing the story. My next story will be presented on Sunday, so stay tuned. For now, I want to make a humble appeal to you,

“Never ever ever ………give up on your dreams”

Signing off,

HIMANSHU KHICHAR 

MUSICIAN - Pursuing the Dream

Today, I am going to talk about the struggle of the musicians. So I am going to present two stories in front of you which are inspired by true life events. First story is a journey of a girl towards her dreams which passes through the avenue of challenges and difficulties.  The second story is of a boy, for whom music is just a hobby and not a passion.

So, let’s get started with the first one.

I met her during my school days. She used to sit in front of me, and as the time went on, we got closer day by day and became best friends. We started sharing secrets and one day she told me that she wants to be a singer but as she was born in a typical middle class Indian family where anything other than studies is useless, her dreams were crushed and she was forced to prepare for engineering entrance exams.  So   she started preparing for IIT-JEE and dumped music.  But how can one leave a thing which one loves the most. As predicted, she couldn’t concentrate on her studies and started coming last in class. Her life became dull and she started feeling trapped in a cage. She failed in IIT mains and her parents put all blame on her music. As months rolled on, I got disconnected as I being busy in my own life and hence never heard of her. After few months, she contacted a mutual friend and from him I got to know that she is doomed as she didn’t want to drop, but has to do again as her parents forced her to. She was crying on the phone, saying “I don’t want to study”  She further added that she had joined a band but her parents told her to take a drop and just pursue engineering , so she trashed the idea of joining band. Now, she is just wasting one year to that shit again which she don’t want to do. She was without any motivation and keeps accusing her parents that they are one who are destroying her life rather than thinking about her dream. We tried to motivate her that rather than complaining about her parents she should just focus on study and go out to study and follow her dream there. We further motivated  her to start a YouTube channel and keep singing then make her video singing a song but she was not even close to get motivated and she keep repeating that she feels incomplete without guitar. She became depressed and started believing that god has closed all the doors and even if there is one left unlocked, path to it was invisible. But at last she told that she will try. No one knows what will happen in future. Will she go after her dreams? Or will she give up and fabricate herself under skin of an unsung engineering student? 

Though future seems blank for her, but I want to leave my reader with one thought:

 “We are not creatures of circumstances,

                                                  We are creators of circumstances”

P.S. :  As I promised for two stories . Second story will be presented by this upcoming Wednesday.

           stay tuned and have a nice day :)

Cool features missing from Social Networking Sites

In this world which is increasingly dominated by social networking sites, it is hard even to imagine a day without checking Face book or twitter accounts everyday if not every hour. We can't imagine our life without these things. These social network giants have already given us so much that we don't ask for anything else. But if these of some cool features if added will make these sites meven more powerful and beautiful. We love a lot of features available on social networks, yet we yearn                                                                              for more. Some of the features are :

1. Incognito Mode 

We would like them even more if they allowed us to browse in incognito mode without collecting our personal data for tailored advertisement. If Google can have that setting then we are sure that it's no greater science for social giants to get it too. It also means that we remain invisible on chat and the site doesn't remember our search pattern.

2. Remove seen messages

The 'seen' that appears on messages after you read them is unnecessary and as annoying as blue ticks. I ask guys why it is there when we don't want it, it may be helpful for some but it sometimes creates problems too. So there should be some setting to change seen into unseen if we want.

3. Remove sends messages

Sometimes it becomes difficult when we send some messages to others which were not meant for them. So if Instagram can do it then why can't other social sites. It will be great because we send some messages to someone when we are angry or in some other mood and then feel guilty of sending it so if it can be unsent that would be great.  

4. Filter posts

There are certain topics which simply don't interest us, and hence, seeing them on our timeline can be frustrating. Social networks can give us a filter on top of the timeline, which will help us block these topics. It will save our time and mind too. 

5. Turn off comments or tweets

We would love social sites much more if they gave us an option of stopping of endless argument on our post. we all regretted posting something; thanks to the endless notification we got after doing so leading to that debate. This feature is available on YouTube to stop unnecessary flaming or debate.

6. Tell me when we are unfriended/unfollowed

We don't think it will difficult to put this feature in effect. All sites should start notifying us when someone when we get unfriend. 

7. Temporary "Mute" for friends

Many people post ridiculous stuff on social sites. We can unfriend them but that will be rude so ultimate solution is to mute them. 

8. Tag Approval 

People should take an approval from the one that they are tagging because sometimes it become a headache when people tag us even when there is nothing relevant to us. So if social sites give us approval button for approving tag. However, we would want this feature to strengthened, so that without approval no one can tag us and also we can add some list of people that don't need to seek our approval so these features if added to sites will be great help because getting irrelevant notification is just bizarre.

9. Other services

How much fun it would be if booking a show or shopping or hailing a taxi and other services could be available on these sites, what we will need more. It is annoying to download so many app these days for all purposes so it will be great if all are available on one. This feature will make cakewalk for us.

10. Discount Coupons

If these sites start offering discount coupons on surfing on their site we would be the happiest people. It will be like eating our favorite dinner and getting a reward too. It will be then fun to surf too.

11. Live Events 

It will be great if all social sites arrange live shows such as football matches or a fashion show and many more on their sites. Even if they charge for live shows we wouldn't mind.

12. Movies 

If they gave us option of watching movies what else will we need. They should either start integrated service with YouTube, or just launch a service on their own and we will be glad to watch movies on it.

13. 3-D Emoji es and video profile pics and emoji es

It will be great if they add this feature too because it will be beautiful watching emoji es and profile picture moving like harry potter movie's newspaper. It will add some space but still it will make these sites even more realistic. 

I don't remember any other feature missing from this article if there is any then write in comment below and it will be great help to me. I think if social sites add these features too it will be great and if they don't then some new sites might do it. Still social sites have done their best and no one can do that much. 

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Things to take to hostel

Hostel is not that big headache but when you go first time to hostel you have a strange feeling like what to take to hostel and what not to? when i went to college it was not easy for me too but at last made a list and i am willing to share it with you:

1. Clothing
a. T-shirts min 3
b. Shirts min 3
c. Jeans min 3
d. Shorts and pajamas min 4
e. Trousers min 1
f. Han-kerchiefs min 3
g. Towel max 2
h. Socks min 4
i. Bed sheets max 2
j. Tracksuit 1
k. blanket and pillows
l. Suit-your choice 

2. take all mark sheets and documents

3. Accessories
a. Nail cutter
b. Belt
c. cap
d. umbrella
e. Watch
f. Backpack
g. Deodorant
h. Soaps
i. Sunglasses

4. Footwear
a. sports shoe like studs for football or any other for other sports    as preferred
b. Sleepers
c. Sandals
d. Formal Shoes

5. Electronics and others
a. Pen stand
b. Highlighter
c. Tape
d. Gum
e. Lock and key ( 2 pairs )
f. Calculator
g. Pen-drives
h. Laptop
i. Earphones or Headphones
j. Power bank

6. Additional kit
a. Toothbrush
b. Toothpaste
c. Tongue cleaner
d. Some kind of Identification card
e. Face wash
f. Mouth wash
g. Zero machine
h. Shampoo and conditioner
i. Oil and comb
j. Lotion
k. Bucket and mug
l. Extension cord

These are some things that you might need and i apologize if anything is missing from the list. 
WELL WISHES FOR YOUR FORWARD LIFE

DREAM

I don't know what that dream is that you have and i don't care how disappointing it might have been as you have been working toward that dream but that dream that you are holding in your mind is possible ,most of you know that it is hard, it's not easy changing your life but Great is not that wonderful it's illusive that only hardworking and special people among us taste.It is something that exist in all of us.


1. Never give up and believe in yourself 
2. Stop thinking so much just act
3. Achieve big things
   3.1 Set clear goals 
   3.2 find a group with same dream
   3.3 Reason behind that group 
   3.4 Detailed action plan
   3.5 have faith and work on it
4. Have courage to do things 
5. Don't be afraid to take risks
6. Achieve the impossible
7. Don't accept things as they are
8. Don't give up on your dream

If you still talk about your dream and talk about your goals but haven't done anything just take one step. Don't let others steal your dream just think that its not over and don't be afraid of what others will say and of failure because if you fail once then you have more than thousand chances to correct it. You don't have to go through life being victim rather be a man with failing following your dream. You have to know within yourself that i can do it no matter what happen. Always listen to everyone but do what your heart says but taking your brain with it too. Never steal others dream but just live your dream no matter what. At last be motivated and hardworking to achieve your dream.Follow your own particular dreams. We are handed a life by peers, parents and society, you can do that or follow your own dreams. Life is short, be a dreamer but be a practical person.these are some of the great words said by Hugh Hefner

SO JUST FOLLOW YOUR DREAM AND I FOLLOW MINE